Let It Burn
A couple of Thanksgivings ago, my mom and dad hosted a home burning. The house I grew up in was old before I was born and after seeing five kids go from the terrible twos to the rambunctious eight’s all the way through the mind-blowing teens — it was ancient. When my grandfather died, they inherited his house (he built on their property) so they no longer needed their old home. So they hosted a home burning. They let the grandkids spend a day wrecking the house — a kid’s dream — then they started a fire.
I have to tell you it was a somewhat unreal experience standing around watching the home you grew up in burn down. But it was also a fascinating experience to watch the fire. It almost seemed to be alive, they way it moved, rolled, snaked around beams and enveloped walls. And then it was done, the house was gone. It didn’t take days, it didn’t even take hours — and it was gone.
I have those pictures in my mind this week as I read James 3:5-6.
In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire. And the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness, corrupting your entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself. (NLT)
The destructive ability of words should cause us to be slow to speak and quick to listen and slow to get angry. The destructive ability of words should lead us to compliment more frequently, say thank you more often, and speak kind words every chance we get. The destructive ability of words should cause us to think twice before we speak once — and never use e-mail to solve a conflict. I have watched words burn marriages. I have watched words scar kids. I have watched words destroy friendships. I have watched words corrupt someone’s image of Jesus.
I still remember words that hurt. The burn can make a mark that lasts a long time. The only thing that can heal this fire from hell is the cool water of grace. The way you let that cool water flow is through forgiveness. Let it flow.
We really appreciated your talk this past Sunday on the power of the tongue. Throughout the day, words you said prompted five different conversations for me with teens/college age kids in my life–two who had heard you and three who hadn’t.
Thanks for all the diligent effort you put in to bringing us material each week that helps us grow closer to the heart of God. Your messages really stick in my mind. I’m still contemplating the phrase from a few weeks ago: “mercy triumphs over judgment” and trying to figure out how to apply it in a few key relationships.
Thanks Faith! I think one of the things that surprised me — shouldn’t have, but did — was the impact on some teens. I think the technological connection points have produced an overflow of junk-words, and even through the internet words can hurt. I don’t know for sure, just know it touched a place in a number of teens that I know.
I’m a Chinese netizen. This picture is very popular in Chinese websites……
The explanation of this picture is “a optimistic family stand in front of thier burning house,so setback in life can never defeat you.”